Woman speechless after opening mans message on Hinge dating app – Birmingham Live

A young woman says she was left speechless after receiving a ‘shocking’ message on a dating app.

Stephanie Campbell, 22, said she opened the dating app Hinge on Sunday, September 26, and was left disgusted by a message a recent match had sent her, LiverpooEcho reports.

The man, who had liked one of Stephanie’s pictures, sent her a message that evening that read ‘yeah **** it you’ll do’.

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Stephanie, from Huyton, decided to share the message on Twitter with the caption ‘Again. Speechless. Someone should tell me this is a joke’.

The image has been retweeted thousands of time and, although Steph said she has had hundreds of messages of support, she has also received more abusive messages.

Steph said: “I’d matched with him but I hadn’t been on the app for a couple of days. I saw the message but I didn’t let it faze me because it happens quite regularly.

The message Steph received on Hinge

“I feel like it’s quite a regular thing with dating apps, because I feel like people don’t take them seriously. It really shouldn’t be the case, messages like this don’t really bother me and I try and take the mick out of them.

“I try and have a bit of banter with them but I know there are other people out there that will take this badly.

“I probably get about one or two messages like this a week. I think the problem is people know they’re not going to meet the people they’re talking to. There are girls who will probably take messages like this to heart.”

Steph said that the young man has now unmatched her ‘out of embarrassment’ after her tweet went viral but she’s been forced to deal with more unpleasant messages.

She has now ‘taken a break from Twitter’ after more ‘disgusting’ messages from men who have created fake accounts to contact her.

Steph said: “People have even messaged me afterwards saying I don’t deserve anything better than that. I receive quite a bit of abuse online, it’s mainly people making fake accounts to message me.

“These men would never speak to women like this in person but they feel like they can do it from behind a screen.

“Stuff like this really puts me off dating apps, I feel like you never really go on a dating app to meet the love of your life.

“Everyone has bad experiences. It is a common thing to do when you’re single, a lot of people don’t take it seriously but I feel like it does put you off the experience.”

Despite the messages, Steph said she has made a number of friends on Hinge but said dating apps need to do more to educate users.

She said: “I have actually met some amazing people on there and we’ve gone on to become great friends. You do get some people on there who are horrible which is a shame.

“Sadly, there is always the potential of risk and that people can take advantage of you when you go out. Messages like this show that there are men who don’t like women.

“Tinder has guidelines on what to do for safety but they don’t have a what to say and what not to say to women. It is what it is but there are people who would be really offended by this message.

“You just learn to laugh it off. You need to have thick skin but it shouldn’t have to be like that.”

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